But the choice IS there. Who cares if some people don't like it? I don't like it when people vote Tory, but they keep doing it. In the 50s you were expected to be a housewife and find that fulfilling, with no other option — I can't see how anyone could not think today is better. And that's not just even right now — my dad raised me in the 90s while my mum worked, as was both of my parents' choice.