Honestly I think ruling out anyone, men or women, on the basis of their height is dumb and rooted in patriarchal notions of women being weak and needing men's "protection", but being a woman of nearly six feet tall I would say that.

It works out well enough for me because I wouldn't want to date a man who was intimidated by tall women.

Calling him an "incel" was absolutely stupid though unless there was further context you didn't share.