I'm not the expert on this topic! But putting my sub-editor hat on, maybe something like this? Obviously in your own voice/words, I'm not suggesting what to write :D I'm just better at conveying ideas this way.

"But a lot of guys genuinely struggle. Most of them wouldn’t hurt a fly, but if those feelings are left to fester for long enough, it can become dangerous. Some men can starting acting out their pain in ways that is harmful to themselves — and others. That's why it's crucial that we address men's issues early, before it gets to that point."