Oooooh, so I "accept" my lupus and it'll go away? Get. In. The. Bin.

Lupus doesn't define me and I don't and won't let it hold me back; I'm back to work and socialising and I'm feeling pretty good. But it is still a disease that I suffer from. That's literally the correct terminology. Would to tell someone with a broken leg that the pain they are suffering is all down to their attitude?

Again, lupus is INCURABLE. It won't just go away if I change my mindset. I hope you will change yours though because you are no better than the people who tell me God gave this to me. Do better.